How do I accept my body?

I honestly have no idea how to find self acceptance of my body let alone self love.

Anyone have any podcasts, books, movies, subreddits, anything to recommend help in this area?

I did do a self love meditation but I’m gonna need more than that to actually like my appearance.

I know I should be thankful for my body and what it’s done for me, I’ve had two babies after all.

I also lack skills in make up, hair care, and I don’t really know how to dress for my body shape and size. Any advice there would probably help my confidence too.

I get the point of IE, but I just have a really hard time accepting my set point where it ended up. It’s this feeling that makes me wanna diet and I wanna try something different this time.

Thanks for reading.

Update: thanks everyone for responding and the recommendations. I’m going to listen to/read them all!