Anyone else struggle with very large breasts? Any tips for body acceptance?

Hello everyone! I would like to start by saying I am a 36K in bras 36H in the UK. I have had very large breasts for my frame since a young age and when I was much slimmer I was a 32H. It’s been a couple years and after putting on some weight it feels like it all goes there. I’ve always felt extremely insecure about them especially the attention that comes with them. I usually wear baggier stuff to hide them and it feels like everytime I wear something for form fitting or lower cut it seems like someone always comments. But I am trying to make peace with them as I love clothes and fashion and would love to wear different things. It feels like nothing ever looks right on me because of them which hurts my self esteem and I feel like I have rather cartoonish proportions. It feels like even when I wear stuff that people with large breasts recommend I look ridiculous. While I’m pursuing a breast reduction right now, until that gets sorted out I would like to enjoy dressing. Being in the r/abrathatfits subreddit has made me realize a lot more people than I thought have my bust and even bigger & my bra fits great thanks to them. I feel like a lot of people with D cups try to give me advice on dressing but there’s a very big difference between us and while I know they mean well and appreciate it, it’s a bit different. Those are still large breasts of course but you know what i mean. I’m trying to get used to wearing more form fitting clothing and shutting down people who comment but if any of you have any support or tips as someone with a very large bust or knowing someone who does, I would really appreciate it. I’m really really trying my best but almost no young women around me are similar in size (I am 21). Any help would be appreciated.